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BLOG POST
5/31/2012
Getting Inspired
Sometimes I watch things or hear a song and it inspires me. Today I woke up and that happen from the preview of a movie that I saw on TV. The funny thing is that I was having a bad day up until then. I woke up with a bad headache and tried hard not to go on my 3.4 mile walk. Knowing this is something I needed to do, I go for my walk with my head pounding! When I got back home my headache was worst than ever, which made me think maybe this is not going to be one of my best days.
It also made me question if I should continue writing.
You see, I don’t want to be another writer who puts as many books out as I can just because.
I want to inspire people not to just want the unconditional love that goes on in my first book
“The Dance My first Love”, but I want to inspire people to want to give that same unconditional love. I want a person who never reads to want to read. I think you miss out on a lot when you don’t read, but I think it takes a good writer to get your attention. I love to write about the stories that wert out there when I was growing up. I want people to get hope and inspired by my stories when it comes to love. It’s hard to do that when you have people telling you that your love is wrong. I suggest the next time someone tells you that, to look up the word love. And I want you to remember that only god can judge you.
Sincerely
Kristy Cato

THE CRUSH!
"Omg I have such a crush on you, and I dont know what to do.
Everytime I see you i feel like a little girl.
What is it about you , that makes me feel this way , I dont know.
I would like to just be where ever you are .
I dont care if your just out getting coffee i want to make it for you!
Your smile, your voice , and I love NYC girls so listening to you talk , is such a turn on!
Sometimes i just want to grab your hand and hold it , but dare I?
You make me feel so shy that i cant even ask you out , no matter how many people tell me you like me!
"This has never happen to me before, WOW!
HAS ANYONE EVER FELT THIS WAY AND IF YOU HAVE PLEASE TELL ME WHAT TO DO?
THE BIG CRUSH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Written By
KRISTY CATO

6/01/2012
SOMETIMES IN LIFE WE THINK WE HAVE THINGS ALL FIGURED OUT, BUT THEN LIFE THROWS YOU THAT UNEXPECTED CURVE.
That curve can be good or bad. If it’s good then we don’t question it.
There is not a word to complain about only thanks to give.
But if it’s bad, we tend to look for someone to blame. We cry and sometimes yell “Why does this keep happening to me?”
For me when things are good I thank god for the help and the good people he sends to me ,weather there here with me in person or a friend online who just made my day with a kind word or words.
When it’s bad, I know now, that I need to learn from it and hope that I do because, I found in life if you don’t learn from your mistakes, you are doomed to repeat them which leads you back to what I was saying before “Why does this keeping happening to me?”
I also understand that sometimes “Shit just happens”
I dedicate this short blog to those of you going threw a good time or a bad time.
Whether it’s, financial, love, heartbreak or some sort of loss in life.
Whether you’re straight or ga,y transgender or undecided. Man or women. You should know that every day you are in my prayers.
My heart goes out to the happy and sad, the crowded and lonely people out there.
Sincerely
Kristy Cato

The worst thing is holding on to someone who doesn't want to be held on to. Don't fall for someone unless they're willing to catch you. The thing about falling in love is that if you do it right, you'll never hit the ground. Life is too short to be anything but happy. So kiss slowly. Love deeply. Forgive quickly. Take chances & never have regrets. Forget the past but remember what it taught you. Sometimes, you just have to smile, pretend everything's okay, hold back the tears and walk away. If you want to see the rainbow you must go through the rain. If you want TRUE LOVE you must go through the pain. Women were made from a man's rib, not from his head to be superior, not from his feet to be walked on, but from his side to be equal, from under the arm to be protected, and from next to the heart to be loved. send this to 15 ppl including me in 10 min. and your true love will realize
how much they want to be with you!Love hard!


LIFE!
Let me KILL your questions... This is for the nights I wanted to leave, but didn't. This is for you, because you were the one who made me strong with every cruel intention you had and I thank you for that. See I forgive you, but I cant give you another chance cause you're in my rearview. You didn't want to believe me, but I always told you that you'd live to regret it. I Am not trying to make you feel bad, but you'll never forget it. Ill always be the best you ever had ;) I Believe that who we are is who we choose to be. Nobody is going to save you, you’ve got to save yourself. Nobody is going to give you everything. You have to go out there and fight for it. Nobody knows what you want except you. Most of all, nobody will be as sorry as you if you don’t go out there and get what you want. I don't care who you think you are, ill still think I'm better. I don't care where you shop, what you drive, or what bar you were poppin bottles at last night. It doesn't impress me. What does impress me is a women that's intelligent. Someone that's comfortable enough with herself to be with one woman. I'm done with the liars and these fake ass little girls. I need a boss to hold me down. You shouldve realized what i was worth before i realized you werent worth it. I dont need another mom, I can take care of myself. I am capable and most importantly, I am free in all the ways you are not. I just want to be happy, and spend time with my friends before time runs out, forgive when necessary; but never forget. That shits stuck on your reputation bitch. I cant wait to have my own family, and start that part of my life. I have the most amazing family i could ask for, and they support me no matter what. Sometimes its hard for me to tell the good girls from the bad. Sinners can surprise you, and the same is true for saints. No one wants to admit that compassion and cruelty can live side by side in one heart, and that anyone is capable of anything. I try to not get involved in other peoples business unless it involves me. If you don’t want to deal with me, don’t make yourself a part of my life. Leave my name out of your conversations and out of your mind, otherwise, I am involved and I am going to finish whatever it is you started. I don’t have the time nor the motivation to care about someone else in a malicious manner, but if you involve yourself in my life, I’ll make the time.







