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The next stop on the Next Big Thing blog Hop is a new comer Kristy Cato. Thank you To Fiona Zedde and Skyy for giving me this shot at following her on this wonderful blog Journey.


 


 


 

The purpose of this hop is to expose folks to writers and their work that perhaps they haven’t heard of, weather a new release or work a work in progress (WIP)

According to the rules of the hop, we all answer the same questions regarding our next our next big project.

Right now my project is my first in an eight book series of “Love and Family.”


 


 


 


 


 


 


 


 

What is the working title of your book/story/whatever?


 

The project that I have out right now is called “The Dance My First Love”


 


 


 


 


 


 

Where did the idea come from for the book?


 

This project came from me not dealing with what I call the death of my very first love, until years later.

One day I sat down turn my computer on and for the first time I went to my word program and just began to write.

I didn’t stop writing this story until I was done three weeks later.

There was no first draft or outline done, I just wrote from my heart.

I wanted to show unconditional love that a lot of us hope for one day or we forget after our heart has been broken.

Kim and Carrie take you on a very emotional journey that has up and downs in their relationship.


 


 

What genre does your book fall under?


 

I think everyone weather Lesbian/Straight/Gay/Bi/Transgender we all go through or will go through our very first love.

I would say my book is for anyone who believes in love.


 


 

Which actors would you choose to play your characters in a movie rendition?


 

One of the great things about reading a book is that you get to imagine what the characters look like.

I would hate to take that away from the readers by naming celebrities who would play them in a movie.


 


 

What is the one-sentence synopsis of your book?


 

It would be what a lot of us have forgotten Unconditional love.


 


 

What is the longer synopsis of your book?


 

From the innocence of the first kiss to the excitement of the first time making love, this book embarks on a romantic journey of two teenage girls who fall madly in love.

Their relationship continues into their late 20s with ups and downs, and surprises along the way.

It relates the youthful insecurities of a young girl and the confidence of another in the enlightenment of what appears to be an everlasting love, one which only they could rip apart.

Take this undulating ride of a first love, one you never forget!

 

Will your book be self-published or represented by an agency?


 

My book was self-published


 


 

How long did it take you to write the first draft of your manuscript?


 

It took me about a month to write the whole book.

There was no first or second drift, I just sat down and wrote the book.


 


 

Who or what inspired you to write this book?


 

My first true love inspired me to write this book.

After not dealing with my feelings from my first heartbreak for years by keeping busy getting new girls friends and working, one day I sat down and it hit me.

All of the emotions began to pour out of me and I began to write a story about a first true love.


 


 

What else about your book might pique the reader’s interest?


 

This is the first of an eight book series; a story long overdue which has never been told. "The Dance My First Love" transports you from the doldrums of everyday life, to laughter and sadness. It will make you smile and it will make you cry but most importantly, it will make you think!
Just when you've forgotten your first love, The Dance will arouse all those dormant memories.

Next Wednesday make sure you check out Christiana Harrell and Spoken Pandora. Thanks again Fiona Zedde and Author Skyy along with “The Next Big Thing” Blog Hop!


 

This is the first of an eight book series; a story long overdue which has never been told. "The Dance My First Love" transports you from the doldrums of everyday life, to laughter and sadness. It will make you smile and it will make you cry but most importantly, it will make you think!
Just when you've forgotten your first love, The Dance will arouse all those dormant memories. From the innocence of your first kiss to the excitement of the first time you made love. The book embarks on a romantic journey of two teenage girls who fall madly in love. Their relationship continues into their late 20s with ups and downs, and surprises along the way. It relates the youthful insecurities of a young girl and the confidence of another in the enlightenment of what appears to be an everlasting love, one which only they could rip apart. Take this undulating ride of a first love, one you never forget!
I love to read good love stories so I wrote one!

 

 

Kristy Cato and the "Next Big Thing Blog"

 

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               5/31/2012

       

        Getting Inspired

 

 

Sometimes I watch things or hear a song and it inspires me. Today I woke up and that happen from the preview of a movie that I saw on TV. The funny thing is that I was having a bad day up until then. I woke up with a bad headache and tried hard not to go on my 3.4 mile walk. Knowing this is something I needed to do, I go for my walk with my head pounding! When I got back home my headache was worst than ever, which made me think maybe this is not going to be one of my best days.

It also made me question if I should continue writing.

You see, I don’t want to be another writer who puts as many books out as I can just because.

I want to inspire people not to just want the unconditional love that goes on in my first book

“The Dance My first Love”, but I want to inspire people to want to give that same unconditional love. I want a person who never reads to want to read. I think you miss out on a lot when you don’t read, but I think it takes a good writer to get your attention. I love to write about the stories that wert out there when I was growing up. I want people to get hope and inspired by my stories when it comes to love. It’s hard to do that when you have people telling you that your love is wrong. I suggest the next time someone tells you that, to look up the word love. And I want you to remember that only god can judge you.

 

Sincerely

Kristy Cato

 

 

 

 

THE CRUSH!

"Omg I have such a crush on you, and I dont know what to do.

Everytime I see you i feel like a little girl.

What is it about you , that makes me feel this way , I dont know.

I would like to just be where ever you are .

I dont care if your just out getting coffee i want to make it for you!

Your smile, your voice , and I love NYC girls so listening to you talk , is such a turn on!

Sometimes i just want to grab your hand and hold it , but dare I?

You make me feel so shy that i cant even ask you out , no matter how many people tell me you like me!

"This has never happen to me before, WOW!

HAS ANYONE EVER FELT THIS WAY AND IF YOU HAVE PLEASE TELL ME WHAT TO DO?

THE BIG CRUSH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

 

Written By

KRISTY CATO

 

 

 
 

 

THE CURVE
by Kristy Cato Author  on Monday,
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                                                            6/01/2012

 

 

 

 

SOMETIMES IN LIFE WE THINK WE HAVE THINGS ALL FIGURED OUT, BUT THEN LIFE THROWS YOU THAT UNEXPECTED CURVE.

That curve can be good or bad. If it’s good then we don’t question it.

There is not a word to complain about only thanks to give.

But if it’s bad, we tend to look for someone to blame. We cry and sometimes yell “Why does this keep happening to me?”

For me when things are good I thank god for the help and the good people he sends to me ,weather there here with me in person or a friend online who just made my day with a kind word or words.

When it’s bad, I know now, that I need to learn from it and hope that I do because, I found in life if you don’t learn from your mistakes, you are doomed to repeat them which leads you back to what I was saying before  “Why does this keeping happening to me?”

I also understand that sometimes “Shit just happens”

I dedicate this short blog to those of you going threw a good time or a bad time.

Whether it’s, financial, love, heartbreak or some sort of loss in life.

Whether you’re straight or ga,y transgender or undecided. Man or women. You should know that every day you are in my prayers.

My heart goes out to the happy and sad, the crowded and lonely people out there.

Sincerely

Kristy Cato

 

 

 

 

Smile it gets better!

 

 

by Kristy Cato Author on Tuesday, April 12, 2011 at 10:19am
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The worst thing is holding on to someone who doesn't want to be held on to. Don't fall for someone unless they're willing to catch you. The thing about falling in love is that if you do it right, you'll never hit the ground. Life is too short to be anything but happy. So kiss slowly. Love deeply. Forgive quickly. Take chances & never have regrets. Forget the past but remember what it taught you. Sometimes, you just have to smile, pretend everything's okay, hold back the tears and walk away. If you want to see the rainbow you must go through the rain. If you want TRUE LOVE you must go through the pain. Women were made from a man's rib, not from his head to be superior, not from his feet to be walked on, but from his side to be equal, from under the arm to be protected, and from next to the heart to be loved. send this to 15 ppl including me in 10 min. and your true love will realize

how much they want to be with you!Love hard!

 

LIFE!

Let me KILL your questions... This is for the nights I wanted to leave, but didn't. This is for you, because you were the one who made me strong with every cruel intention you had and I thank you for that. See I forgive you, but I cant give you another chance cause you're in my rearview. You didn't want to believe me, but I always told you that you'd live to regret it.  I Am not trying to make you feel bad, but you'll never forget it. Ill always be the best you ever had ;) I Believe that who we are is who we choose to be. Nobody is going to save you, you’ve got to save yourself. Nobody is going to give you everything. You have to go out there and fight for it. Nobody knows what you want except you. Most of all, nobody will be as sorry as you if you don’t go out there and get what you want. I don't care who you think you are, ill still think I'm better. I don't care where you shop, what you drive, or what bar you were poppin bottles at last night. It doesn't impress me. What does impress me is a women that's intelligent. Someone that's comfortable enough with herself to be with one woman. I'm done with the liars and these fake ass little girls. I need a boss to hold me down. You shouldve realized what i was worth before i realized you werent worth it. I dont need another mom, I can take care of myself. I am capable and most importantly, I am free in all the ways you are not. I just want to be happy, and spend time with my friends before time runs out, forgive when necessary; but never forget. That shits stuck on your reputation bitch. I cant wait to have my own family, and start that part of my life. I have the most amazing family i could ask for, and they support me no matter what. Sometimes its hard for me to tell the good girls from the bad. Sinners can surprise you, and the same is true for saints. No one wants to admit that compassion and cruelty can live side by side in one heart, and that anyone is capable of anything. I try to not get involved in other peoples business unless it involves me. If you don’t want to deal with me, don’t make yourself a part of my life. Leave my name out of your conversations and out of your mind, otherwise, I am involved and I am going to finish whatever it is you started. I don’t have the time nor the motivation to care about someone else in a malicious manner, but if you involve yourself in my life, I’ll make the time.

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